The Benefits of Male Orgasm Denial

By on July 30, 2013
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Most people know what orgasm denial is. After all, it’s in the name, but what most people don’t realize is just how potent orgasm denial can be and how empowering to women. Cougars are prime candidates for being dominant or at the very least an equal in bed and for those of you who are looking at spicing things up, why not try a little orgasm denial? The benefits are great and your cub will be on his knees to have you let him get off.

What benefits are there to male orgasm denial you ask? Well, let me tell you.

There’s the authority factor where you get to be in complete control of a man who is sexually aroused. This control is both a mental and physical control because your cub will know that you have the power over his release. He can’t cum without your say so.

You’ll also have a more obedient cub who wants to please you more than anything. Pleasing his cougar means that the cub gets to get off if he does well enough. Most of the time, no matter how nice the cub is, his desire to focus in on the Cougar fades once he has gotten his orgasm. But now there would be no rush through sex because you’re the one who’s controlling his orgasms.

You get an orgasm, he gets an orgasm. Every body gets an orgasm when it’s time for orgasm denial! Oh your cub will eat you out, have sex with you, use his fingers on you. You’re in control and you call the shots. It can take awhile for a man to get used to being denied, but once they do you’ll be able to have sex until you cum, but they’ll be able to hold off for round two or three. You’ll be aching in the best possible way once it’s done.

Another way that orgasm denial is good for Cougars (and cubs) is that it increases the intimacy between you. Male orgasm denial will change the mindset of your cub and if he’ll not only be more open to snuggling between sessions, but also to being more communicative because he’ll have to use his words to help him get what he wants. This increased intimacy is sure to strengthen your relationship over time and will help to strip your cub of the excessively macho thing that some of them have going on. Don’t get us wrong, manliness is great but some cubs take it too far. It’s hard to do that when your cub is desperate for an orgasm.

Lastly, male orgasm denial will make your cub more energetic. Not that they didn’t have energy before, but when a person orgasms they get tired. It’s natural to get sleepy, you get all those endorphins from your release that flood your brain and make you want to curl up. If the orgasm

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is denied however, all parts of you are still running on high. Not only will your cub have more energy, but he’ll also be more sensitive to

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your touch. Just like if you use something too often you get used to it, if you orgasm too often your body sees it as mundane rather than something exciting. Arousal has a lot to do with the body, but it also has a good amount to do with your mind and your cub will be on his toes waiting for the orgasm he knows will be coming eventually.

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  1. Guest slave

    October 2, 2013 at 6:59 am

    After you cum Lindsay make him clean your house…

  2. Guest

    October 5, 2013 at 5:06 pm

    So basically it’s all opinionated. This entire article says “it’s good cause the woman feels in control”. What a waste of time.

  3. James

    October 10, 2013 at 2:24 pm

    I have to admit it, I thought I was doing ok before – but I am much better in bed now she owns my cock and my orgasms! J

    • Guest

      March 11, 2014 at 9:27 pm

      I agree with you James. We are just starting and I adore her control.

  4. thavnen

    November 7, 2013 at 1:03 am

    i have to admit it this is very good we love each other more than usual now 🙂

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  6. Al

    January 1, 2014 at 12:42 pm

    Lindsay, you are spot on. I am not a cub nor my wife a Cougar (she could be if she wanted to one) but I absolutely love having my orgasm denied. Ever since she began denying me our intimacy level has shot through the roof. I feel so much more connected to her, love to serve her, and even enjoy feeling her cum on my fingers AS much as when I am inside of her. She denies me for many days in a row, up to 2 weeks. It is very exhilarating for me. Like 2 weeks of foreplay. And yes, I do more for her outside of the bedroom as a result.

    She has full control of when I am allowed to cum and we both love it. Her girlfriends often comment on my level of attentiveness to her so we know it is apparent that she has my full devotion.

    I recommend it completely

    • Angela Goodnight

      January 12, 2014 at 11:39 am

      Fascinating. We have a sex blog and my husband is, right this minute, writing his Monday post and it is on Orgasm Denial. I've never tried it, but he was in a relationship, some years ago, where it was applied to him, but never over as long a period as you have experienced. If you want to read his google my name and the word blog to find it tomorrow. I must say it fascinates me and, from what you say above, I might have to give it a go. However, I easily have multiple orgasms and I love him having his, too, so I don't know if there would be any benefit. Although we have briefly discussed it, I am still unaware of the detail of the event/s he is posting. Angela Goodnight

  7. Dee

    January 30, 2014 at 6:54 am

    I have found my look and how I dress very important to his desire and and lust for me.I

  8. Ron

    August 27, 2016 at 3:49 am

    I have tried EVERY channel, but can't find a cougar to do this to me whatsoever. I am beginning to conclude this is all a fictional cause